So this is it! ....
ANG SAMA SAMA NG LOOB KO NGYON! -________- Hayup! Alam ko it's all my fault. Pero, di ko mapigilang ndi mainis oh magalit! Minsan kase, SOBRANG blinded tayo by the world's perspective of LOVE. Kaya common scenario is nasasaktan tayo. Kase, kahit ilang beses na tayong iconfront ng senses natin, we tend to ignore it. Thinking that what you really feel is LOVE. Uh-oh!
Okay, have you ever got confronted by your senses saying that, "it'll never work out", "you should NOT date him", "He didn't make it to your standards", "Why are you breaking your own rules", "He might end up hurting you", "You'll end up crying" and so and so... but despite of all those thoughts, all those doubts you still continued to pursue you're "Relationshit". Thinking that you don't want to hurt him. For me personally, Im that kind of person who would rather be hurt than the one who's causing the pain. And even though there are doubts, I sheepishly follow the world. And sometimes, lifting up with the world's standards can be so costly. - That's a wrong move. But human as we are, we always make mistakes. So here I am write now writing this blog, full of.. regrets? UHHHH!
Mga boys nga tlga. -____- Alam mo ung ipaparamdam nila sayong special ka, na "MAHAL" ka nila, na ipaglalaban ka nila, and they'll say all those sugar-coated lies and sweet promises. Tapos, eto ka nman, tanga tanga, maniniwala! -____- NAKO! Minsan kase, OA ang effort e. Tapos sasabihin nilang KAYA nila kayong ipaglaban and all, but in the end, sila rin pala ang bibigay, I'm not saying that all boys are like that, but what i'm saying that MOST of the guys nowadays are like that! Tama naman ako e. Kokonti nalang tlga ung mga maayos na lalake sa mundo. -____- Scarcity na tayo sa mga matitinong boys e. -___- Kayong mga boys! Dapat ang mga babae, minamahal at di dapat sinasaktan. Now, just because someone has been reckless with your heart doesn't mean you have the license to be reckless with other people's heart. Kung sinaktan ka man ng nakaraan mo, that doesn't mean na may karapatan ka nang saktan ang ibang tao. Most especially mga babae! -___- AT!!! Please, please lang.. Only say what you really MEAN. Never promise when you happy! Kase, tendency is, pag di ka na masaya, di mo yun mapanindigan. -____-
At para naman sa mga girls, WAG TANGA. -____- Okay, okay. I can't blame the girls for falling in LOVE. Kung LOVE nga tlga yon. But sometimes, it's okay to say NO. Yan tlga yung natutunan ko. It's okay to reject someone, BUT always in a nice way. I don't know ah, pero I'm just not that kind of person who says NO to people. Parang, I don't know how to refuse. But now, I learned that, If you don't say no, and you keep on allowing them to get in to your HEART, you'll always end up being the looser. Kase, tayong mga girls, in MOST cases ang palaging KAWAWA. Kaya, SET YOUR STANDARDS and BUILD YOUR WALLS. Yeah! Easier said than done! Ganyan ako e. :))) -_____- and I always fail. Kase, Hard-headed. Hmmm. But now, I will really really really really be careful. -___- Kase, nako! Mahirap na ung palagi kang nasasaktan. I'm currently reading I kissed dating goodbye by Joshua Harris. And it's really helping me. And I'm learning alot of things. One of the many things that I learned is that, never date when your not really ready for commitment, kase turns out to be selfish kase you are playing with other people's emotions to satisfy yours.
In closing, I'd like to really point out that, God is preparing something better for you, and while you're single, do your very best to glorify him. Focus on Him, kase, I learned that being single is a blessing, and it's also the time to be a blessing to others. DO NOT RUSH, because God said in Ecclesiastes that He has made everything beautiful IN HIS TIME. So just WAIT. :)
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*Ciao!
TheMarjj
